cheers chaps, just to explain this about my dad, he died suddenly a couple of days before xmas of a heart attack and without any warning. fine 1 min and dead 10 mins later. sounds harsh and it is, but you know what - and i am ok taking about this, happening before xmas made it easier. allow me to explain.
he died on the 22nd of dec and everyone was doing their thing upto xmas day when we got left alone for a few days while people carried on about thier business which was great. having a few days of peace to get to grips did me and my mum a load of good. then people remember and get in touch in the new year.
Ok xmas is kinda finished now for us all and being over 40 that is fine. but you know what, its been 2 years on and i am very lucky. he never suffered, had any long term illness or any pain or discomfort, and for that i am great full and glad he went out as quickly as he did.
i feel so sorry for anyone who has to watch a loved one go down hill, who is suffering in pain on a downward spiral almost waiting to die - its really so sad.
Ok i never had the chance to say what i needed to say, or get that closure but you know, he was my dad and he knew all this anyway so its only for the people remaining and their comfort i think. much more important he went with no pain or discomfort i feel.
Anyway like i say, its a part of life and something we can all be certain about. I was lucky enough to inherit the 350 desmo, and its currently being registered and run for the first time in nearly 7 years. i am going to ride it this year just to see what its all about - i owe him that much, and the plan is, chuck it in a van, head down to italy, and ride it a few miles to the factory and get another tour in for 2012 but to arrive on the desmo.
road trip anyone ?
