So upon removing the old OEM relay I found that there are the two big connections, one for the black wire one for the red and the two small push on connectors one for the earth and one for the small black wire.. The new relay only has an earth connection and no conncectiom for the small black wire, is there an alternative method or am I being thick? I'm no expert with electrics.
I've done a search and couldn't find anything, most other after market relays being sold online are the same as mine so I'm pretty sure I've got the right part
Thanks alot

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